Love Your Enemies
by Joanne Ellison

Good morning, Making Space for God friends! This morning, while I was preparing for my day, I heard the Lord whisper in my heart:

Joanne, it is a privilege to love your enemies. 

Naturally, I stopped in my tracks. “Is this you Lord?” I have learned it’s better to stop in your tracks and see if it might be Him because if you don’t, He will just keep whispering… and then it will get louder and louder in your spiritual ears and heart. And then I heard Him say:

It’s easy to love those who love you, but it is a privilege to love those who do not love you. 

Living in the Kingdom as believers, God is always teaching us His ways. If anyone has taught us how to love our enemies it was Jesus.

If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. (Luke 6:32). 

Busted. I was hoping this was not Jesus talking to me. But clearly He says to us that the real test of love is loving those who don’t like you. And let’s be real. We all have people who do not like us let alone love us. Let’s take a look at what this does mean and what it does not mean.

First of all, I gravitate towards people whom I enjoy being with and vise versa; people who like me. Its fun and easy and keeps life simple. But as kingdom citizens, our lives are to be modeled after Jesus. He did not shy away from the Pharisees, or Saducees or others who wanted to get rid of him. He confronted them with love and truth. He did not choose to hang out with those who liked Him (remember Judas!). He chose to do what His Father told Him to do. And that mostly involved loving the unloveable, the outcast, the prideful in the case of the Pharisees, those who mocked Him, the crowd who sentenced him to death,  and even those who nailed Him to the cross.

So first we need to reach out to those whom we might not consider lovable or even likable. And then we need to ask God to pour His love into our hearts through the Holy Spirit (Romans 5:5) and to release His love through us. His agape supernatural love enables us to see people as He sees them. His love is unnatural, not limited to those who are easy to love. His love crosses boundaries of color, culture, gender. And God’s love is available to us 24/7. We simply need to tap into it. And when we do, that is when we will clearly see that it is a privilege to love even our enemies. Because even our enemies are loved by God. And. by the way, we need to clarify the difference between God is love and love is God. God doesn’t just define love. He is love and not the other way around.

I want to challenge you this week to reach out to those who may not like you or be like you. In doing so, you will find that it is indeed a privilege to love and serve those who may not love you in return.



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  1. Martha Bouknight

    Praise God from Whom All Blessings Flow! I sooo needed to hear this message. I struggle with being around people whom I know don’t like me or feel uncomfortable around me. I am a middle child and always acted out to get attention! I so wanted to b heard and understood ???????? Through many trials in my life I have learned that my reason for living is to have a personal relationship with God! He needs to b my main #1 focus and HE will take care of the others whom He purposely puts into my life! I know now I can’t b all things to all people -my husband, children, grandchildren -11 of them , my friends and neighbors!
    When I make God my main focus -my true Love He fills my days, my thoughts ,my actions regardless of what others think of me????????

  2. Carol Lund

    This is awesome message Joanne! Thank you for the reminder to continue reaching out to those you may not think are reachable or who are not in your circle of comfort.

  3. Lenora Owens

    As the Holy Spirit dwells within me I listen to the quiet to understand where he wants me to go, who he wants me to speak with. If I don’t stay in contact with my leader (Jesus) I do not know which way to walk literally with the movement of my legs. I see with my physical eyes however walking with Him allows me to see what he wants me to see. For instance I was at the grocery store today and saw this older lady I asked if I could help her find anything when I got closer I saw her crippled hands , her missing teeth and my thoughts came from the Holy Spirit “slow down hear her speak, listen to what she says”. I know He will dwell within me every day as I have asked him into my life!!!


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